"Women's work in the home is not recognised as work. We also read how doing household work and taking care of family members is a full-time job and there are no specific hours at which it begins or ends."
1.0Introduction
In this chapter, we will look at work outside the home, and understand how some occupations are seen to be more suitable for men than for women.
We will also learn about how women struggle for equality.
Getting an education was, and still is, one way in which new opportunities were created for women.
This chapter will also briefly trace the different types of efforts made by the women's movement to challenge discrimination in more recent years.
2.0Fewer Opportunities and Rigid Expectations
Women are good at only certain jobs. For example, many people believe that women make better nurses because they are more patient and gentler.
This is linked to women's roles within the family. Similarly, it is believed that science requires a technical mind and girls and women are not capable of dealing with technical things.
Because so many people believe in these stereotypes, many girls do not get the same support that boys do to study and train to become doctors and engineers.
In most families, once girls finish school, they are encouraged by their families to see marriage as their main aim in life.
It is important to understand that we live in a society in which all children face pressures from the world around them.
Sometimes, these come in the form of demands from adults.
At other times, they can just be because of unfair teasing by our own friends.
Boys are pressurised to think about getting a job that will pay a good salary.
They are also teased and bullied if they do not behave like other boys.
3.0Learning For Change
Going to school is an extremely important part of your life.
As more and more children enter school every year, we begin to think that it is normal for all children to go to school.
Today, it is difficult for us to imagine that school and learning could be seen as "out of bounds" or not appropriate for some children.
But in the past, the skill of reading and writing was known to only a few.
Most children learnt the work their families or elders did.
For girls, the situation was worse. In communities that taught sons to read and write, daughters were not allowed to learn the alphabet.
Even in families where skills like pottery, weaving and craft were taught, the contribution of daughters and women was only seen as supportive.
For example, in the pottery trade, women collected the mud and prepared the earth for the pots.
But since they did not operate the wheel, they were not seen as potters.
In the nineteenth century, many new ideas about education and learning emerged.
Schools became more common and communities that had never learnt reading and writing started sending their children to school. But there was a lot of opposition to educating girls even then.
Yet many women and men made efforts to open schools for girls.
Women struggled to learn to read and write.
Let us read about the experience of Rashsundari Devi (1800-1890), who was born in West Bengal, some 200 years ago.
At the age of 60, she wrote her autobiography in Bangla.
Her book titled Amar Jiban is the first known autobiography written by an Indian woman.
Rashsundari Devi was a housewife from a rich landlord's family.
At that time, it was believed that if a woman learnt to read and write, she would bring bad luck to her husband and become a widow!
Despite this, she taught herself how to read and write in secret, well after her marriage.
"I would start working at dawn, and I would still be at it until well beyond midnight. I had no rest in between. I was only fourteen years old at the time. I came to nurture a great longing: I would learn to read and I would read a religious manuscript. I was unlucky, in those days women were not educated. Later, I began to resent my own thoughts. What is wrong with me? Women do not read, how will I do it? Then I had a dream: I was reading the manuscript of Chaitanya Bhagabat (the life of a saint)... Later in the day, as I sat cooking in the kitchen, I heard my husband say to my eldest son: "Bepin, I have left my Chaitanya Bhagabat here. When I ask for it, bring it in." He left the book there and went away. When the book had been taken inside, I secretly took out a page and hid it carefully. It was a job hiding it, for nobody must find it in my hands. My eldest son was practising his alphabets at that time. I hid one of them as well. At times, I went over that, trying to match letters from that page with the letters that I remembered. I also tried to match the words with those that I would hear in the course of my days. With tremendous care and effort, and over a long period of time, I learnt how to read..."
After learning the alphabet, Rashsundari Devi was able to read the Chaitanya Bhagabat.
Through her own writing she also gave the world an opportunity to read about women's lives in those days.
Rashsundari Devi wrote about her everyday life experiences in details.
There were days when she did not have a moment's rest, no time even to sit down and eat!
4.0Schooling And Education Today
Today, both boys and girls attend school in large numbers.
Yet, as we will see, there still remain differences between the education of boys and girls.
India has a census every 10 years, which counts the whole population of the country.
It also gathers detailed information about the people living in India - their age, schooling, what work they do, and so on.
We use this information to measure many things, like the number of literate people, and the ratio of men and women.
According to the 1961 census, about 40 per cent of all boys and men ( 7 years old and above) were literate (that is, they could at least write their names) compared to just 15 per cent of all girls and women.
In the most recent census of 2011, these figures have grown to 82 per cent for boys and men, and 65 per cent for girls and women.
This means that the proportion of both men and women who are now able to read and have at least some amount of schooling has increased.
But, as you can also see, the percentage of the male group is still higher than the female group.
The gap has not gone away.
Here is a table that shows the percentage of girls and boys who leave schools from different social groups including Scheduled Caste (SC) and Scheduled Tribe (ST).
Average Annual Drop-out Rate in School Education (2014-15)
Level
All Boys
All Girls
Total
SC Boys
SC Girls
Total
ST Boys
ST Girls
Total
Primary (Classes 1-5)
4.36
3.88
4.13
4.71
4.20
4.46
7.02
6.84
6.93
Upper Primary (Classes 6-8)
3.49
4.60
4.03
5.00
6.03
5.51
8.48
8.71
8.59
Secondary (Classes 9-10)
17.21
16.88
17.06
19.64
19.05
19.36
24.94
24.40
24.68
You have probably noticed in the above table that SC and ST girls leave school at a rate that is higher than the category 'All Girls'.
This means that girls who are from Dalit (SC) and Adivasi (ST) backgrounds are less likely to remain in school.
The 2011 census also found that Muslim girls are less likely, than SC and ST girls, to complete primary school.
While a Muslim girl is likely to stay in school for around three years, girls from other communities spend around four years in school.
There are several reasons why children from Dalit, Adivasi and Muslim communities leave school.
In many parts of the country, especially in rural and poor areas, there may not even be proper schools nor teachers who teach on a regular basis.
If a school is not close to people's homes, and there is no transport like buses or vans, parents may not be willing to send their girls to school.
Many families are too poor and unable to bear the cost of educating all their children.
Boys may get preference in this situation.
Many children also leave school because they are discriminated against by their teacher and classmates.
5.0Women's Movement
Women and girls now have the right to study and go to school.
There are other spheres - like legal reform, violence and health - where the situation of women and girls has improved.
These changes have not happened automatically.
Women individually, and collectively have struggled to bring about these changes.
This struggle is known as the Women's Movement. Individual women and women's organisations from different parts of the country are part of the movement.
Many men support the women's movement as well.
The diversity, passion and efforts of those involved makes it a very vibrant movement.
Different strategies have been used to spread awareness, fight discrimination and seek justice.
6.0Campaigning
Campaigns to fight discrimination and violence against women are an important part of the women's movement.
Campaigns have also led to new laws being passed.
A law was made in 2006 to give women who face physical and mental violence within their homes, also called domestic violence, some legal protection.
Similarly, efforts made by the women's movement led the Supreme Court to formulate guidelines in 1997 to protect women against sexual harassment at the workplace and within educational institutions.
In the 1980 s, for example, women's groups across the country spoke out against 'dowry deaths' - cases of young brides being murdered by their in-laws or husbands, greedy for more dowry.
Women's groups spoke out against the failure to bring these cases to justice.
They did so by coming on to the streets, approaching the courts, and by sharing information.
Eventually, this became a public issue in the newspapers and society, and the dowry laws were changed to punish families who seek dowry.
7.0Raising Awareness
An important part of the women's movements' work is to raise public awareness on women's rights issues.
Their message has been spread through street plays, songs and public meetings.
8.0Protesting
The women's movement raises its voice when violations against women take place or for example, when a law or policy acts against their interests.
Public rallies and demonstrations are a very powerful way of drawing attention to injustices.
Laxmi Lakra, a woman from a poor tribal family in Jharkhand, was the first woman engine driver.
Rashsundari Devi, born in West Bengal, was a housewife from a rich landlord's family. She wrote Amar Jiban.
9.0Glossary
Stereotype - It refers to the practice of believing unfairly that all people belonging to a particular group are bound to have certain fixed characteristics.
Discrimination - It means to treat people unequally or with disrespect. It takes place when we treat someone differently.
Census - It means to collect information about people living in India such as age, literacy rate, sex ratio, etc. In India, census is done every 10 years.
Campaigning - It is a series of activities designed to produce a particular result.
Violation - It is the act of doing something which is not allowed by a law or rule.