A man `X` has `7` friends, `4` of them are ladies and `3` are men. His wife `Y` also has `7` friends, `3` of them are ladies and 4 are men. Assume `X` and `Y` have no common friends. Then the total number of ways in which `X` and `Y` together can throw a party inviting 3 ladies and 3 men, so that 3 friends of each of `X` and `Y` are in the party, is : 469 (2) 484 (3) 485 (4) 468